No matter how long couples have been together, for most of them their bedroom is not just a place to sleep. Couples often head to their bedrooms to reconnect with one another, as well as relax and unwind. The only way to successfully transform a bedroom into a romantic retreat is to make the room’s overall design cater to both parties.
Lighting and Color Create the Mood
Color is the most important part of any bedroom style. The hardest part is choosing colors that you can both agree on. When deciding on a color scheme, start with the main color before trying to figure out the accent ones. Agreeing to a color scheme is sometimes harder than it sounds; comprising might be necessary,
Soft and muted tones, like purple, pale blue, or sage green, can help you feel calm and peaceful. If you like warmer colors, dusty pinks, soft corals, or warm browns can make a room feel cozy and close.
Bedroom lighting is what sets the mood. Putting in dimmer switches allows you to change the mood whenever you want without going through a lot of trouble. For a romantic touch, you could use a mix of ceiling lights, bedside lamps, string lights, and even candles. Switching over to smart bulbs gives you the ability to change the light’s color and brightness based on what is going on inside the bedroom at the time.
Finding the Perfect Bed and Bedding
As it’s the bedroom we are talking about, it makes sense that the most important piece of furniture is the bed. The worst thing you can do is settle for a cheap mattress. This means you are going to have to spend a little extra for a high-quality mattress that the two of you find comfortable. If you require different firmness levels, try a split king mattress or one with adjustable settings on both sides.
The bedding is almost as important as the mattress itself. Always choose high-quality, breathable textiles such as cotton and linen. Choose a comforter or duvet that meets both spouses’ temperature preferences. Layering with throw blankets and ornamental pillows adds texture and warmth while allowing for simple modifications.
When thinking about the headboard, bear in mind it can be functional and stylish. You don’t have to settle on one or the other. Upholstered headboards offer a pleasant backdrop for reading in bed, whereas wooden or metal headboards give character and elegance to the space.
Work on Creating a Relaxing Atmosphere
Many of us find sitting in nature refreshing, so bring nature inside with the addition of fresh flowers in vases and potted plants. Plants not only bring color and life to a room, but many of them can also clean the air in your bedroom.
Aromatherapy can make your bedroom feel even more relaxing. With aromatherapy you have the option of using diffusers, scented candles, or wax warmers to achieve the desired effects. What you use in your bedroom will depend on personal preference and what works best with your design. Just be mindful of the scents you are using; some are more calming than others. Make sure that the smells you pick are ones that both of you like.
Give Your Room Some Personalization
You can use pictures and other personal photos to create a gallery wall. To make the space even more personal add small decorative items that show the things you both like and have done. The important thing is to use stuff that is important to both of you, and that goes well with both of your personal styles.
Don’t Forget About Organization and Storage
Plastic bins that slide under the bed are great for storing things that aren’t used very often. If space allows, place a bench or ottoman at the foot of the bed to provide extra storage and seating.
Technology is an Option
Nightstands can have charging ports built in for phones and tablets so that cords stay out of the way and devices are easy to reach. Just make sure there are rules about using technology in the bedroom so that it stays a relaxing space and quality time with your partner is prioritized.
Make Use of Personal Zones
These personal spaces don’t have to be big—a small, well-designed area can give each person a sense of their own place in a shared room. Just make sure you are balancing these smaller areas with the rest of the room; you don’t want to create any divided space.
Encourage Romance
After years of living together, some couples lose that spark they once had as they let the romance die. For a romantic retreat you must add things that will encourage intimacy and romance. A soft throw rug next to the bed makes a soft place to put your feet when you wake up in the morning. Adding satin, silk, or fake fur to your decor can make the room feel more sensual.
By draping or hanging a canopy over the bed you can create more privacy. Making your bed feel like a room inside of another room is great for private talks or lazy weekend mornings.
A drink cart or even a bedside tray with drinks and glasses can make bedroom dates more romantic on the spur of the moment. You can add anything you wish to the bedroom that encourages romance; the point is to help you spend quality time with each other.
To Sum Things Up
With comfort, usefulness, and personal touches in mind, you can design a room that really is a romantic retreat for your relationship. Remember that the love and bond you share is the most important thing in a couple’s bedroom. With these ideas as a guide, you can make a place that is special to you both that strengthens your relationship and reminds you every day of your promise to stay together.
